Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Making Up, How to Do It

By Ricardo d Argence

I've seen it happen many times. Everytime some friend breack ups with her girlfriend, they fall to pieces and fall to the usual steps: call her day and night, get drunk and call her at 3 am saying how sorry they are, following her around the city and try to find out what she is doing or who is she seeing. All these only make them look patetic and needy. Let me put three easy steps to take that can pad the way to get your ex back.

1. Agree with the break up. What you are telling your ex girlfriend is that you have moved on and you are over her. This will make you more interesting to her. Even if this is hard for you, do it. This is just the beginning.

You know this isn't true, but your ex will feel attracted to you again because she will think that she can't have you have. Just a little reverse psychology. If she call you, just remain calm and cool. You will notice how she changes whenever she has to call you or receives a message from you. Do not ignore her, but just act cool. You'll see the magic of this technique work a couple of days after.

2. Once you've told her that you are ok with the break up, do not call her again for some time. Let some time pass to let her think you are over her and moved on. The more time you wait, she will want you more.

If she thinks you are not interested in her anymore, she will see that you are confident and secure in yourself. This will make her wonder why she let you go and make her think of you.

3. If your ex girlfriend calls, keep the impression that you are not interested. Don't jump at the first meeting she offers. If you do, she will notice that nothing has changed and lose interest again. Keep things calm and agree to a meeting once you notice she is eager to see you.

In these three steps you've prepared the path to win her heart back. Remember, this is the beggining. There's still more to do.

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