First of all, if you're going for a one-night stand, there's one thing you need to know -- You won't always be able to get the hottest girl in the venue to go home with you.
Bringing a girl home doesn't based on whether she is open or not in going home with a guy, sure maybe you can her number but it varies widely on particular night.
But there are lots of horny women that are open to get physically fast and wants to get laid that same day or night. All you have to do is know how to spot them in any situation whether it is a day or night or in the club, bar and park.
I look for a few things - first, I notice how they are dressed, how much makeup they have on, etc. If they look like they put a lot of work in to being pretty, it was for a reason.
They want to be approached. This of course, isn't always true, but is generally the case.
Another thing that you can spot that a woman is looking for attention is when she is being so loud and animated.
Lastly, another good prospect are woman that are looking around the room more than the other girls that she's with. Also a group of two or three women all standing around with blank expressions, scoping the room are another prospect.
These are what women do in order for someone to notice and approach them.
Just take these in mind, that when you approach you don't go into full-steam running your clever routines and cocky frame control stuff. You have to take it easy.
You have to let them know that you are interested in meeting them, A simple "hey ladies, you all look great tonight. Special occasion?" is enough. Its just have to be light, warming and social.
You should not openly discuss to the woman that you are looking to take her home and get her into bed. Because, if you talk about that, you're putting a woman to a point where is to agree to implicitly bang with you.
Or also, build sensual tension with her, as we discuss heavily in our workshops.
This is against her "rules" and will force her to keep you at a distance. You're also going to need logistical information, so that you can figure out how to get her back to your place when the time comes.
The real key to all this is subtracting any overt sensual intention, and not trying to pick her up.
You must have the willingness to control the situation and knows how to enjoy while having the escalation in the right way.
It may sound counter intuitive, but that's how it works.
You have to trust that women wants to get in bed, and that a lot of the women in the venue wants to lay NOW.
Some won't and some will, and that is why you need to know how to spot and get them.
You don't want to put a lot of effort and time with the wrong girl or to pick the right girl and then mess it up after a very long interaction.
It's not worth wasting your time for that.
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